Gordon Kevin Grist Stevens ~ My Most Fabulous Father-in-Law

Gordon Kevin Grist Stevens is Father to Michael, Simon, and my husband, Marcus and Step-Father to Indra and Tara. He is Grand-Father to 16 outstanding, beautiful, and brilliant grandchildren and Great Grand-Father of six. Gordon died on the 10th of September after a brief hospital stay and even though he was 93 years of age, I can assure you, the majority of his family thought he would be returning home. Death places loved ones remaining behind in a surreal state - moving through the sadness, yet...all the while not actually believing the news could be true. Denial. Pain. Sadness. Disbelief. Grief. Denial. Regret. Love. Denial. Disbelief. And...more...pain. A myriad of emotions swirl around in our minds. Parents and Grandparents get a bad rap ~ they are continuously accused of having favourites and, no doubt, 'favs' occur naturally ~ organically. Some family members ...